According to Nairafame, Nigerian lady, Ashipu Josephine took to her facebook page and advice ladies that go after men because of flashy things and money.

See her writeup below

“Dear Ladies

Our greed for Money, Material things, Flashy things etc Can never lead us anywhere……

Give that Man a helping hand, Support his career, Pray for Him and build him to what you want him to Be, He is someone’s Child don’t forget that… Your Pray can change many things

You want Money? Lady Work for it
You want Diamond/Gold? I said Work for it
You want flashy things? I said get a Job

Be a blessing to your Man instead of a Destiny killer
Be that Woman that your man won’t not want to lose
Be that Woman he is bless to Have

**If you have a brother would you let me Treat him same way you are treating the man in your life? Ladies please think”