Why do you men keep sexualizing me? – Nigerian woman asks after a ‘family man’ sent explicit message to her

A Nigerian lady, Sophia Kelechuchukwu, has called out a married man who sent a s3xually explicit message to her on Facebook.

In a Facebook post on Friday, Sophia asked what motivates the men who s3xualize her as she doesn’t wear revealing clothes, misbehave or share s3xual content online. 

“No matter how you’re tempted as a man, there are certain things you should never do especially online,” she wrote.

If you like a woman, there are more proper ways to approach her. There are certain levels you should outgrow as a man.

Your maturity starts when you can confidently control your sexual urges

For crying out loud, this is unfair! I was not sexually dressed in that video

And to think that it is actually a very mature family man that said this to me is so disheartening

Now, you people will say, I should let my private chats remain private, but how long will you people Continue with this???

I don’t post sexual contents here, I have never worn any revealing cloths here

I don’t say arousing words, why do you men keep sexualizing me??

I am not one of those Facebook Gen Z’s I was born in the 1990’s 

I don’t sex chat with men, I am not a hookup girl. I work, I don’t misbehave.

All of you who keep seeing me in this light, God will pay you all back!!! Next time, I won’t hide anyone’s name!!