My wife has full access to my phone, my bank account. I treat her like I’d want my daughters to be treated – South African man says

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My wife has full access to my phone, my bank account. I treat her like I’d want my daughters to be treated – South African man says

A South African man, Dr. Bakhe Dlami, has revealed that his wife has full access to his phone and his bank account “belongs to her.”

The marriage counsellor and psychologist disclosed this in a Facebook post on Thursday, November 20,

The father of three said he owes his woman loyalty, commitment and treats her like he would want his two daughters to be treated.

“Husband of 1, father of 3, always home latest 6:00PM (unless work demands), my wife has FULL access to my phone. My bank account belongs to her, hers belongs to myself; we are one. I’m in this marriage thing a 1 000%,” he wrote.

“I don’t do half commitments. And yes, I’m there for the fun. If there’s no fun, intimacy, connection: I don’t want it. I believe in being a “gentleman”, chivalry, decorum. I’m not a simp, I’m a leader. Not a dictator, but a leader.

“I owe my woman loyalty, commitment. I have 2 girl children. I treat my wife like I’d want my daughters to be treated. I strive to be a better husband & father each day. I come from a painful background; have to do better. I can’t fail myself. Foolishness is stumbling where your predecessors have.”