“You will hear things”- Lady shares difference between men and women advising each other

A Nigerian lady has stirred conversation on social media after sharing her opinion on the difference between how men and women advise their friends.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter) by ChuksEricE men and women approach advice from very different angles, especially when it comes to relationships and personal growth.

In her words, she said:

“There is a huge difference between when a man advises his fellow man and when a woman advises her fellow woman.

Men’s advice is usually about motivating each other on how to make money and succeed, while women’s advice is often like, ‘That man doesn’t deserve you. You’re in the wrong relationship, leave him, you’ll meet someone better.’”

Her statement quickly gained attention online, with many agreeing while others strongly disagreed.

Some users supported her view, saying men often push each other toward financial growth and discipline, while women tend to focus more on emotional wellbeing and self-worth.

Others argued that women advising each other to leave unhealthy relationships is not a bad thing, but a form of protection and support.

A commenter wrote, “Women advice is about peace of mind, not destruction.” Another reacted, “Both genders advice based on what they value most, it’s not a competition.”

The post has continued to fuel debates about gender dynamics, friendships, and how advice can shape life decisions.

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