“Being single is not a choice, I need a man” – Lady cries out, sparks reactions online

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after expressing deep frustration about being single and wanting a relationship

In the viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she questioned the popular belief that being single is a personal choice, insisting that many people are only pretending to be fine with it.

In her words, she said:

“Being single is not a choice, being single is not a choice. I no see who go date me, na wetin make most of us dey pretend.”

She further expressed frustration about her dating life, claiming that despite trying to stay positive, she has not been able to find a partner.

According to her, many people publicly preach self-love, but privately struggle with loneliness and desire companionship.

“Your happiness doesn’t revolve around a man, your happiness does not revolve around a man, go and heal oo. Apart from self-love, happiness revolves around a man, and that’s the truth,” she added.

Her final comment, where she admitted she is tired and needs a partner, has generated even more reactions online, with many people divided over her opinion.

While some netizens agreed with her honesty about loneliness, others insisted that happiness should come from within and not depend on a relationship.

Watch the video below…