“How is the daddy?” — Singer Simi says such a question misses the point after a woman gives birth

Singer Simi has shared her thoughts on a question she says women often hear after giving birth: “How is the daddy?”

In a video making the rounds online, Simi questioned why attention is shifted to men at a time when women have just gone through the physical and emotional toll of pregnancy and childbirth.

She pointed out that pregnancy and delivery involve months of body changes, pain, exhaustion, risk, and recovery — from nausea and swelling to possible complications and life-threatening moments.

According to her, the focus after childbirth should be on the mother’s recovery and the baby’s wellbeing, not asking after the father.

“The right questions are: how is your wife, is she recovering well, how’s the baby, do you need anything?” she said, adding that childbirth is not the man’s moment.

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