“I like how you appreciate your wife on TikTok, can I be your side chick?” — Man shares DM from a Lady

A social media post has stirred debate online after a married man revealed a private message he received from a woman on TikTok, raising concerns about boundaries and marriage respect.

The man shared the experience on X, formerly Twitter, while advising married men to guard their homes and families against growing social media temptations.

Message That Sparked Reactions

In his post, the man said he was shocked to receive a direct message early Monday morning from a woman who openly proposed becoming his side partner.

He wrote: “To all responsible married men, please protect your marriage by all means you and your wife. This generation is not joking at all.

“I never imagined someone would enter my DM early Monday morning and say:

“‘I like how you appreciate your wife and family on TikTok. Can I be your side chick since you can’t marry a second wife?’ So it has really gotten to this level.🙄

“I’ve said it before: if all married men start posting some of the messages they receive in their DMs, many relationships will scatter. Protect your home. Respect your marriage.”

Mixed Opinions From Social Media Users

The post quickly gained attention, with many users sharing their thoughts on relationships, marriage, and social media influence.

RAFIU wrote: “Them see say you guide nio, most of those ladies are rejecting men that truly love them looking for readymade man. They no wan start with any man.”

Olarewaju said: “Honestly, the way single ladies are mostly obsessed with dating married men ehn. It’s really alarming.”

Stephanie commented: “Is not a new thing girls are moving mad right now is all left for the guy to protect his marriage at all cost.”

Concerns Over Changing Relationship Values

Another user, YemzyA, linked the issue to popular online discussions about side relationships and long-distance marriages.

He wrote: “I watched a live program on TikTok I think is ojuabeblunt court or so. I was shocked when the side chick said she is dating him and there is nothing anyone can do about it that she’s lives🇳🇬 and the wife lives in 🇺🇸 that she’s not disturbing her. Some men too are Hotspot.”