Lady shares shocking relationship rules from abroad-based boyfriend

A Nigerian lady shares some unexpected rules and regulations laid out by her abroad-based boyfriend, including cutting off all ties with male figures online.

@ashabi_chanter60 on TikTok posted a video revealing a WhatsApp conversation with her Germany-based Yoruba boyfriend, whom she met on Instagram.

The video captioned “I met a Yoruba man based in Germany on IG, and these are his relationship rules.”

In one of the WhatsApp snapshots shown in the video, the boyfriend outlined his expectations regarding her business activities and financial transparency.

“Because from your WhatsApp, it seems like you are doing a lot of different kinds of side businesses. I am wary of that because on the one side, I don’t want my woman moving outside a lot because of her possibly interacting with males of any kind,” he wrote.

He continued, emphasizing his desire for control over her finances: “I want complete visibility over the whole finances of my woman. I believe in the Yoruba culture that our parents teach us, which is that it is the man who is the head of the household and therefore is responsible for the finances of the household. Any money the woman earns from her work she will make visible to her [husband].”

The Germany-based boyfriend added, “I prefer to always say immediately if I see something I don’t like. I cannot keep it inside. Do you understand?”

The video has gone viral, with social media users reacting to the boyfriend’s strict and controlling relationship demands.

Watch the video below…