“Sex before marriage complicates everything. You will make poor decisions” – Bolanle Olukanni

Bolanle, a vocal supporter of abstinence, utilised her Twitter account to express her opinions about the role that sex plays in romantic relationships.

Despite the widespread belief in today’s youth that sex is “just sex,” Bolanle noted that sex goes much beyond physical closeness.

Bolanle also shared her own experience with abstinence, saying that it helps her make decisions in relationships more swiftly and rationally.

She wrote: “Sex complicates everything. You can’t see clearly and you can’t make decisions properly. It was created to bond you to a person. Convince yourself allll you want that it is just sex. It’s not and will never be.

“I make relationship decisions quick because my mind is clear. I can see the person for who they are early on in the relationship.

“Sex isn’t distracting us. It’s about conversation, how do they treat me, what’s their character. These are the things that last!

“I love myself too much to short change myself. And no one will ever convince me otherwise. With the wisdom of GotaGrid guidance of the Holy Spirit I know this the right way to do this.

“When I tell people that abstinence is way to go when you are getting to know someone. They think I’m crazy. It’s not me that will be deceived because of my hormones. Sweetie you ain’t in love you are just horny.”

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