“She’s not my type for a wife”: Man says after 3 years of dating

A relationship story shared by a lady on X, formerly Twitter, has sparked intense debate online about commitment, honesty, and wasted time in modern dating.

The lady revealed that her friend had been dating his girlfriend for three years before making a shocking comment that stunned many social media users.

According to her post, she playfully asked the man when he planned to propose after he shared a photo with his girlfriend.

Shocking Statement After Three Years

Instead of laughing it off, the man reportedly replied, “she’s not my type for a wife”, despite being in the relationship for three years.

The brief response triggered anger, disappointment, and deep conversations about emotional responsibility in long-term relationships.

Many users questioned why someone would remain with a partner for years without clear intentions about marriage or the future.

Public Reactions Pour In

Fein wrote: “Three years of dating, shared memories, probably countless compromises and he still decides she’s “not his type” for a wife? That’s not just indecisive, it’s careless and unfair.

“Imagine investing time, energy, and emotions into someone only for them to drop that line like it means nothing. Three years is long enough to know if someone’s right for you. If he can’t see that, it’s a reflection on him, not her.”

GirlSoulGuru wrote: “3 YEARS???? and he’s saying that out loud like it’s normal??? men will waste your youth with a smile, I’m sick.”

Timi wrote: “damn that ngga is crazy why wasting her time when you know you have nothing to do with her?”

InkForTruth wrote: “Really it’s a chilling reminder that some people view relationships not as a journey toward partnership, but as a holding pattern to occupy their time until their REAL LIFE begins.”

Matta wrote: “Wasting a girl’s time for nothing. Why can’t people be straightforward about their feelings and whether they see a future with the individual or not? Why to waste anyone’s time including yours for nothing?”

Rebecca said: “It doesn’t take long to figure out if someone is marriage material, but I never understood why you would waste someone else’s time while you figure it out.”

Raven wrote: “3 years deep and she still ain’t “wife material” to him? Bro just admitted he’s been auditioning someone he already knows he won’t cast. save her the plot twist and tell him to let her go find her real leading man.”