When you are married to a wicked man, do not birth more children – Nigerian optometrist advises women

A Nigerian optometrist, Chioma Onwuelingo, has advised women who are married to “wicked men” to stop having more children, earn money and to carefully plan their exit. 

She gave the advice in a Facebook post on Wednesday while writing on the challenges of single parenting and women who chose to leave their children with their ex because they are not financially capable of taking care of them. 

“Single parenting is hard, difficult, draining and mentally exhausting . But single parenting can teach you unimaginable strength, focus and can drive you to greatness,” she wrote. 

I will not LEAVE my child/children for any man. To any woman who choose to leave their offspring for their ex, you are courageous and I applaud you but I CANNOT

It doesn’t in any way make your decision WRONG, nor Validate mine above yours…. NEVER but I just don’t have the heart to do it

Some children have been left for these men and they neglected them to the point of kpaiing or permanent disability. While others turned out great

My advice is this, when you are with a W1cked man, do not birth MORE CHILDREN:

Plan your exit carefully

Get busy and start earning money

Look for help within your family and close friends

Finally don’t second guess yourself.

Be BOLD and do that which is right for you and for your cuties.