Woman Who Want To File For Divorce On The Grounds Of Desertion Needs Your Advice

Her story below:-

 I grew up without my father I started working at the age of 16. Am a church girl very involved in church I had my shares with men several heart break. I met a brother in church we got married after 2-years no child he accused me of being the cause of our childlessness not knowing he was the cause. A miracle came after the 3rd year I had a beautiful son. The problem is My husband doesn’t have sex with me, if he does is once in a month and his mind is always far, he sleeps in a separate room always chatting with several girls . I want to file for divorce on the grounds of desertion but my pastor keeps saying hold on keep praying, he doesn’t take care of my needs, am working so I don’t bother him at all. Please I’m a young woman of 36 with high feelings what do I do????