A bad man will show you shege – Nigerian woman writes as she shares her photos during marriage and after divorce

A Nigerian woman, Chioma Omeje, has shared photos of herself showing how she looked during her marriage and after divorce.

“Kindly be the judge,” she captioned the post. 

Writing further, Omeje recalled letting herself go during marriage, adding that she was as big as a “room and parlour”.

 “I dusted myself very well. While inside that sh!t whole called marriage. I was super big then, asin room and parlor,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Saturday, May 2, 2026.

“Take care of yourself, your messiah wouldn’t want to associate with a disorganized fellow. Work on yourself like your life depends on it.”

She advised women in toxic marriage not to have more than one kid because it’s difficult and messy to walk away or survive breakup when multiple children are involved.

“No matter who you think you are, both in real life and spirit world, a ba!d man will show you shege if you jam one!,” she added. 

“Don’t stay for too long figuring anything out sisters, movement immediately (Mujee). 

“Do not follow my mother’s advice of having all your children with one m!add man please, you can try with another sane person Nnem. 

“It gets really messy when you want to leave with kids more than 2. Go to any nearest healthcare, mee family planning, it’s affordable there.

“If it’s just one child, close the chapter of making it 2, all in the name ka my kids bia from the same man. It takes by his grace to survive breakup with multiple children.”