“Are they not my kids?” — Man laments after wife declined to thank him for bathing children

A husband has sparked discussion online after expressing frustration over his wife’s response when he asked for appreciation after bathing their children.

The man shared the experience on social media, saying he had helped with the children’s evening routine but felt disappointed when his effort went unacknowledged.

Disagreement over appreciation at home

According to his account, the issue began after he finished bathing the children and expected a simple expression of gratitude from his wife.

He said he later asked her to thank him for helping out. However, her response surprised him and led him to question whether his contributions in the home were being taken for granted.

The incident has since drawn attention online, with many users debating expectations around appreciation and shared responsibilities in marriage.

“So after I bathe my kids this evening, my wife didn’t say thank you. I told her to say thank you, and she said ‘are they not my kids’?. Wow!!! So this thing wey I de help her do don turn to entitlement. Seems I’ll start reducing the things I help her with in this house.”

Debate over parenting and household duties

The post generated mixed reactions, with some social media users agreeing that spouses should acknowledge each other’s efforts, regardless of whether the task involves caring for their own children.

Others argued that parenting responsibilities belong to both parents and should not necessarily require praise or recognition each time they are carried out.

The discussion also touched on broader conversations about household labour, emotional support and expectations within marriage.

As the post continues to circulate, many users remain divided over whether appreciation should be expected for routine parenting duties or whether such responsibilities are simply part of family life.

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