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Archive for the ‘Relationship Matters’ Category:

• “A man you build with will respect you more” — Nigerian businesswoman speaks on marriage after 22 years
• Take that broke boyfriend seriously. Men don’t fall in love when they are rich – Kano-based TV presenter advises women
• Do different styles – Nigerian woman advises women on how to keep their husbands sexually satisfied
• “Cover your husband’s shame if he has infertility issue” – Clergy woman advices wives
• God is not the one who decides when you graduate, marry, give birth, become rich or get cured from an ailment – Nigerian Catholic priest says
• I was earning N30,000 monthly salary as a school principal and teacher while dating my wife – Nigerian man says
• Man dumps girlfriend for sidechick who got pregnant only to find out the baby isn’t his
• Lack of sexual satisfaction leads to marital frustration – Nigerian marriage therapist says
• If your husband doesn’t suck you, he doesn’t love you – Nigerian woman says
• No man belongs to you. Your husband has the right to bring in another wife – UK based Nigerian man tells women
• Nigerian father warns women against marrying a man who expects them to pause their careers and take care of the home alone
• Please marry a kind man, a man that can’t stand seeing you in pain – Pretty Mike
• A broke guy trying to get married to a rich babe is a red flag – Nigerian doctor says
• An illiterate wife who gives you peace is better than a PhD holder who makes life uncomfortable for you – Nigerian woman tells men
• Lady blocks her fiancé weeks to their wedding after the man said “he can’t see himself with one woman”
• The spirit of humility has caused many maids to hijack their madam’s husbands – Lady says as she advises married women to play the ‘role of a humble maid’
• You are a very lazy person if you are married and living in your father’s house – Nigerian man tells men
• Until you are married, you are single – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
• “If you don’t have unrestricted access to your partner’s phone, they’re hiding something” Businesswoman says
• Not marrying someone you love because of genotype incompatibility means you don’t love them enough – Man says
• “I wake up in bliss everyday” – Man in a polyamory relationship shares loved up photos with his girlfriend and boyfriend
• Avoid women over 30s. They are full of drama, toxicity, past trauma, bad grammar – Ghanaian lawyer advises men
• If you can’t submit to a man in a relationship, step aside for the woman who will – Lady tells women
• “The best time to bear kids is in your 20s, try to marry early” – Pastor Kingsley
• “I feel bored around my wife but happy with girlfriend” – Man seeks advice
• Divorce lawyer reveals the signs you are being cheated on and which professions are most likely to cheat on their spouse
• The law is not against sex before marriage. Taste that male organ before you marry any man to know if erection is possible – Nigerian lawyer advises women
• If you are living with a partner that cheats, your are not safe – Nigerian marriage counsellor says
• Don’t sign up for indefinite relationships. Define your relationship- clergyman Kenneth Okonkwo tells single women
• Why you should regularly check your man’s phone – Saida Boj
• Married women share battles they fight in their homes that their loved ones know nothing about
• When I was President, I did everything I should do for Nigeria and I can beat my chest and say that. I took over the affairs of Nigeria – Obasanjo
• Igbo woman reveals how she found out her Yoruba boyfriend was cheating on her
• 95% of broken engagements are caused by premature publicity on social media – Nigerian pastor says
• Stop punishing your husband by denying him sex – Nigerian lawyer advises women
• A man who hasn’t married you nor met your family but keeps flaunting you on social media is reducing your market worth as a woman – Nigerian lady says
• “Strong men don’t handle one woman. It is not African” – Nigerian man says
• South African woman vents online as boyfriend of 7 years marries another lady on her 34th birthday
• “No woman should submit to poverty and pain” – Nigerian man tells women to submit only to men who give them something of value
• “World’s best divorce lawyer” shares the roots of all marriage problems
• Lady left heartbroken as her sister is set to marry her ex
• Nigerian lady shares how she transformed the looks of her ‘elderly’ looking American husband (photos)
• Nigerian lady who loves to read gets proposed to with a 42-page book
• Ask your woman if she has slept with a fellow woman. Ask your man if he has slept with a man before – Relationship coach writes
• Man moved to uncontrollable tears as his man proposes to him (video)
• “A lot of single ladies are in love with someone that won’t marry them” – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
• Nigerian lady flaunts romantic car date with her boyfriend on social media (video)
• Nigerian men know how to genuinely love and have sex – Kenyan lady says
• Please save another woman’s marriage by saying no to that married man – Kenyan man advises women
• Reject poor men. They are going to be your downfall – Nigerian lady advises women
• Be bold and courageous enough to ask men out – Nigerian woman advises women
• Lady blasts man for failing to give her ‘just N50K’ for birthday photoshoot
• Don’t allow civilization break your home, there is nothing like 50/50 in marriage. Your husband is your boss – Nigerian woman addresses women
• A christian couple shouldn’t be watching porn to learn sex, that’s infidelity – Solomon Buchi
• Nigerian man shares his definition of marriage
• Beautiful lesbian couple share how they got through their Youth Service being apart (video)
• Talking stage is emotional scam – Nigerian man laments after spending over £2k on a lady only for her to say she is still ‘studying him’
• Woman discovers her husband is gay after 1year of their marriage
• Don’t live in the same house with your mother in-law except you are mentally prepared to handle stress – Nigerian man advises married women
• Girlfriend raises the bar high as she flaunts the gifts she got for her boyfriend on his birthday
• I told my friend that I liked a guy we both knew. She smashed him the next day and gave me a review – Woman says
• I am afraid for the Youths of this Generation. Many are not Preparing enough to enter into Marriage – Clergyman, Mike Bamiloye
• “How I got scammed of $100k by my online boyfriend a month to our wedding” – South African woman shares experience (video)
• A single man who sees you in his future can never ask you for your nude photos – Reno Omokri tells ladies
• Boyfriend surprises girlfriend with brand new generator after 3-week power outage in her hostel
• “Women who date homeless n*ggas not my type” Man says after turning down woman who wanted to date him while he was living in his car
• 80% of divorced women got advice from single friends or women in monogamous marriage – Nigerian polygamy advocate says
• Real Reason Women Cheat In Marriage – Blessing CEO
• A man can cheat and still be good to you. A woman will cheat and treat you like trash – Nigerian lady says
• Avoid religious and broke women – Nigerian woman advises men who have ‘dream and vision’
• Married men are the most s-ex starved group – Nigerian lawyer says
• Why some ladies find peaceful relationships boring – Kingsley Okonkwo
• Marriage of 2 adults who can’t go through each other’s phone is a union of two enemies deceiving themselves – South African journalist says
• Lady set to wed stranger four years after helping him get a job
• If you are fine with your husband duping people, you should be fine with him cheating on you – Nigerian man tells women married to fraudsters
• Woman who declined offer to study abroad because of her boyfriend later ends up alone while the man is married and working abroad
• Nigerian couple’s 3-year relationship ends in tears over genotype mismatch
• “Men don not marry women that they like” – Kimmy K
• Life no be Nollywood – Lady says as she runs into ex-boyfriend who now looks fresh and better off after dumping her for a Caucasian woman
• Man reveals he didn’t marry his girlfriend of 5 years because she never left him even when he treated her poorly
• Nigerian lady shares photo of a “respectful and submissive woman”
• “I can donate my heart for this man” – Wife emotional as husband gets up at 2 am to cook for her (video)
• Viral video of a married man expressing his attraction to a single lady
• “She didn’t like when I helped anybody financially” — Man shares why he ended a relationship
• Dress up for your husband even when you are nursing a baby. Stop tying wrapper and wearing hairnet – Nigerian lady advises women
• “Stop asking out a lady you cannot maintain. All fingers aren’t equal” – Nigerian woman tells men
• “He just wants free fuck, doesn’t want me to do anything” – Angry Moroccan lady set her Chinese boyfriend’s house on fire in Lagos (video)
• Nigerian big boy blasts those trolling him for marrying an older oyinbo woman (video)
• “Marry your friend” — Man advises as his wife agrees to cook for him a day after giving birth
• Nigerian man dumps girlfriend over facial tribal marks (video)
• Nigerian man takes to ex-girlfriend’s TikTok page to ask for his shirt back after they broke up
• If a woman loves and respects you, nothing from another man will entice her- Nigerian man reveals what an ex-girlfriend of his did after receiving expensive gifts from another man
• “I must take permission from my in-laws before going out” – Lady living with husband in his family house shares her experience (video)
• “If a woman loves you, she will go any length to see you succeed” – Williams Uchemba
• Once a man keeps describing himself as an “alpha male“ sister just run – Clergyman Kingsley Okonkwo
• Stay away from any lady desperately searching for marriage – Engineer warns men
• Don’t marry a man who cannot call out and rebuke his parents – Solomon Buchi advises women
• If the only thing you have to offer a man is your breasts and that thing between your two legs then you are a useless woman – Nigerian pastor says
• “Pretend you don’t have money and see your partner’s character” — Man who got dumped after refusing to send girlfriend N30k advices men
• “You can’t pay my bills because I like material things. Face your studies” – 20-year-old lady tells guy asking her out (audio)