Former lesbian recalls when a pastor’s wife refused to allow her sing in church choir because she was in a homosexual relationship

A woman, Promise Israel has recalled when a pastor’s wife refused to allow her to sing in the church choir because she was in a homosexual relationship.

Promise, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Sunday, said the incident offended the ‘gay spirit inside her’ and she left the church. 

However, looking back, she came to realise that the pastor’s wife saved her life by refusing her request otherwise she wouldn’t have left the lesbian lifestyle. 

“I remember a few years ago I joined a church & I opened up to the pastor and his wife about being in a homosexual relationship ok boom I continued to go to the church and I wanted to start singing in the choir and then the pastor wife told me I needed to get myself together before doing that,” she wrote.

“She completely offended me (well the gay spirit inside of me) and I left the church! I actually stayed in the lesbian lifestyle a little longer because I was angry.

“Now this might sound crazy but since I’ve grown spiritually I’ve realized that when the pastor’s wife told me “No I could not sing in the choir because I needed to get myself together”

She actually saved my life if I had gotten a chance to do anything like that in the church while being a homosexual I never would’ve left that lifestyle.

“I would’ve been able to have my cake and eat it 2.

“The moral of the story Is sometimes saying NO is really the solution to the Problem.

“Problem -Being Gay

Solution – Saying No regarding things I wanted to do while still being in that lifestyle.

“Listen stop allowing people to do things out of order. Have a boundary when it comes to Christ and that’s not JUDGEMENT that is TRUTH. I WAS PROVOKED TO CHANGE. Now I’m free, & I m growing with Jesus Christ everyday!