“I have been coping with unsatisfying sex. I don’t want again” – Roby Ekpo shares chat his wife sent about him before remarrying without his knowledge

Roby Ekpo has shared some of the things he endured while married to his colleague Mayowa Lambe. 

Last week, it emerged that Mayowa has married again in the United States. 

Many were shocked, including Roby who took to Instagram to express that he was as shocked as everyone.  He added that this was her third marriage. 

Now, in an interview, Roby has claimed that while he was fully in the marriage, his ex-wife was not as committed.

He claimed to Daddy Freeze that whenever he earned N500,000 from a job in Nigeria,  he sent N200,000 to Mayowa in the US, believing they were still a married couple.

He added that he is now 48 years old and has no child because he was married to Mayowa for 11 years.  He alleged that while he was hoping for a child with her, she was taking contraceptives to avoid getting pregnant for him.

Crying, he stated that he is a Calabar man and wouldn’t have been so hurt if he had gone and had a child outside.

He then accused Mayowa of speaking badly about him.

One message he shared showed Mayowa telling a friend that she is tired of Roby.

The chat purportedly from Mayowa reads: “I need you to just know whatever resentment I have, he slowly worked his way there.

“Almost driving me to depression.

“Almost making me loose myself.

“Making me apologise for his bad habit.

“I don’t even care if he loves me or not, cos what is the love doing for me? Besides stress me??

“He isn’t taking care of me like a man should.

“He isn’t satisfying me sexually.

“He isn’t helping my spiritual life.

“He isn’t spoiling me.

“He isn’t energetic enough toward any goal.

“He isn’t anything good.”

“I have been coping with unsatisfactory s£x for almost 3 years. I don’t want again,” she goes on to write.

“I’m just very irritated by him really and it’s really bad like if he tries to touch me I can scream out of irritation.

“Dealing with this and then have to deal with bad s£x too. Na, I will pass,” the chat continues.

“Mistake of a man I married,” she added.

She went on to write: “I have never insulted him or talk him down besides pointing out his flaws, but this time I will insult the life out of him if he dares to raise stupid issue with me.

“Shebi I will be crying stupid cry he thinks he can do anything he wants.”
 

Roby cried as he read out the chat. He added that when Mayowa visited Nigeria, she could not even hug or kiss him. 

Watch his interview with Daddy Freeze below.
 

Heartbreaking to watch Roby Ekpo break down over his ex-wife Mayowa Lambe. She allegedly took contraceptives secretly, flew to Miami for BBL, then remarried fast ,all while texting about bad sex, depression & wanting out. Signs were there but love blind us pic.twitter.com/hmQ2BI2D5d

— Squad Navigators (@SquadNavigators) April 19, 2026

“If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have been justified” — Roby Ekpo cries out over his previous marriage to Mayowa Lambe. pic.twitter.com/sDr9flZQgG

— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) April 20, 2026