“If another person’s chat makes you happy other than your spouse, it’s cheating” – Lady lists cheating signs

A Nigerian lady lists the day-to-day activities that are common signs of cheating but are easily neglected due to the normality of these actions.

According to the lady, giving attention to other people other than your partner is cheating as it indicates a motive to have an affair if time and location present themselves.

She added that being in a relationship equals total devotion to that one person, anything outside that can be considered as infidelity.

In her words;

“Some of you think cheating is until, you become sexually involved with another person. This isn’t the case at all.

YOU ARE CHEATING IF;

• Another person’s chat makes you happy other than your spouse.
• You hide chats from your partner.
• You look forward to their chat.
• You give them excessive attention.”

Reactions as lady list signs of cheating

deriqblaq said: “I often say cheating doesn’t happen the day it happens
It’s mostly premeditated
Planned
Kept secret
Carefully thought out & executed
It wasn’t a “mistake/accident”
You weren’t just walking, kicked a stone & stumbled in bed with the opposite gender naked & penetration occurred.”

Chimdi0811 penned: “99% of people in relationships in Nigeria Dey cheat if na like this. No cap.”

Thefranknation stated: “They will dating Somebody but their TIME & ATTENTION is for everybody. Zero Loyalty & Commitment. Accountability Zero.”

InanaPaul noted: “My own is I won’t even think twice once I notice something and I ask you.

Bae: who is this guy
And you start defending or saying some crap

Me I go just off my mic towards you and slowly move on.”

shyvvonnety said: “I thought we all know these things already.”