Nigerian TV show host, Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori has stated that being married or having kids should not be seen as an achievement.

For many across the globe, the marriage rite of passage is a special one, which many anticipate from their teenage years.

Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori, is of the stance that the process is not an achievement.

Taking to her Instagram page, she asked her followers to focus on themselves and not see marriage or child bearing as achievements as they’re only blessings from God.

Bukunmi also asked that people should not use other people’s marriage as a yardstick or standard to measure their performance in the field.

See what she wrote below;

“Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either!

These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you are!

And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success level in life.

Nobody’s marriage is goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE is goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals!

FOCUS ON YOU!!!!”