“Omugwo is for errands, not rest” – Lady sparks debate over mothers-in-law expectations after childbirth

A Nigerian lady has stirred conversations online after sharing her opinion about Omugwo and expectations involving mothers-in-law after childbirth.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she questioned the growing expectation that a husband’s mother should automatically come for Omugwo without considering the demands of caring for a newborn.

In her words, she said:

“Which one be say na husband mother suppose to come do omugwo? Hope if I’m ordering your mother around, you won’t complain?”

The lady further questioned whether husbands would be comfortable if their mothers were asked to perform household chores such as washing clothes or cooking meals preferred by the new mother.

She added that as a breastfeeding mother, she cannot be expected to cook and also cater for a visiting mother-in-law, insisting that any mother coming for Omugwo should be ready to actively assist in the home.

“You can’t expect me to just watch your mother sitting without doing anything as a breastfeeding mother. If your mum will be the one coming for our Omugwo, just know I will be sending her on errands,” she said.

Her statement has since generated mixed reactions online, with many Nigerians debating family roles, Omugwo traditions, and boundaries in marriage.

The conversation continues online as social media users share different opinions about motherhood, marriage expectations, and post-childbirth family support.

Watch the video below…