“Talking stage is a scam” — Lady warns ladies over 25 against wasting time

A post from an X user, is currently making waves online after she shared blunt advice directed at women aged 25 and above about dating and the infamous “talking stage.”

In her words, once you hit 25, there’s no need to drag the talking stage beyond two weeks.

“Ladies, once you’re 25, don’t do talking stage for more than 2 weeks. Go on 2/3 dates with him, know where he lives, find out what he does, meet a good friend of his, find out about his family.”

She emphasized that anything beyond that is a “scam” and advised women to transition into a relationship quickly—or move on if it’s not working.

“Leave the rest to God and chance but don’t waste time on talking stage. It’s a scam.
Move on to relationship sharply. If it doesn’t work, move on. Don’t waste your time.”

The post has sparked debates across social media, with many women agreeing and others saying it might be too fast-paced for everyone’s dating style.