“Women have nothing to lose if they don’t marry” – Man sparks debate with controversial opinion

A Nigerian man has stirred reactions online after sharing his views on marriage, children and why he believes women have less to lose if they remain unmarried.

In a now-viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), he argued that many men still shame unmarried women, especially those in their 30s, despite marriage being a personal choice.

In his words, he said:

“2026, a lot of men are still thinking dumb. I’m happy women are beginning to get wiser. If a woman decides not to marry all her life and not have kids, she has nothing to lose. But if a man decides he doesn’t want to marry or have children, he will lose.”

The man explained that men often focus on preserving their family names, properties and legacy through children.

Using his own family history as an example, he said he knows more about his grandfather than his grandmother, which he believes shows how family legacies are usually traced.

“Men build generations. A man needs someone that will live after him and retain his name. So these ones that shame women that if you’re not married in your 30s, your life is useless, Oga, woman life no dey useless,” he added.

His comments sparked mixed reactions, with some agreeing that women should not be pressured into marriage, while others disagreed with his views.

The video has continued to generate debate online, with many Nigerians sharing different opinions about marriage, children and personal fulfilment.

Watch the video below…